I AM CURRENTLY AT THE SHERATON IOWA CITY. NEW DESK. NEW CITY. NEW VIEW. SAME LAPTOP. MY SWEET HUSBAND IS DOZING AFTER AN AFTERNOON OF INTERVIEWS WITH THE UNIVERSITY OF IOWA. I AM FRESHLY SHOWERED AFTER AN AFTERNOON OF WALKING, REFLECTING, A COFFEE DATE WITH A LOCAL REALTOR, BROWSING BOOKS IN THE CHILDREN'S SECTION OF A FABULOUS BOOK STORE, (OH YES...) AND A MANICURE. MY! THEY ARE CHEAP HERE. (I WILL ADD THAT TO THE + COLUMN OF OUR OBLIGATORY POST-INTERVIEW T-CHART.) I AM FEELING QUITE GROWN-UP AS I ANTICIPATE OUR DINNER OUT WITH THE CHAIRMAN OF PLASTIC SURGERY AND PREPARE FOR MY TWO HOUR TOUR OF THE CITY TOMORROW MORNING.
I AM ALSO IN AWE OF MY DOZING HUSBAND. AS WE SAT AT BUFFALO WILD WINGS THIS AFTERNOON OVER WINGS (BONELESS WITH MEDIUM SAUCE, MY PERSONAL FAVORITE), I LISTENED TO HIM AS HE ANALYZED THE INTERVIEW PROCESS THUS FAR, AND AS WE DISCUSSED THE PROS AND CONS OF TAKING A POSITION FURTHER AWAY FROM HOME. I CAN FEEL THE WEIGHT OF THE DECISION MAKING PROCESS AS I OBSERVE MY HUSBAND, FEELING HIS TENSION, OPTIMISM, CONCERN, AND EXCITEMENT. IT IS A MIXED BAG OF EMOTIONS FOR SURE, AND HE IS HANDLING IT WITH SUCH GRACE, CAUTION, AND CARE. I'M SO THANKFUL TO BE HERE TONIGHT, BY HIS SIDE. I AM SO PROUD OF HIS ACHIEVEMENTS AND HIS WORK ETHIC, WHICH BROUGHT US TO THIS POINT. I KNOW THAT ULTIMATELY THE LORD WILL PROVIDE US WITH THE ANSWERS TO OUR MANY (LOADED) QUESTIONS. I TRUST HE WILL ALSO PROVIDE US WITH PEACE AS WE EVENTUALLY SAY "YES" TO A CITY, AND SIGN A CONTRACT. AND, WHILE I DO NOT KNOW THE CITY WE WILL EVENTUALLY CALL HOME, I DO KNOW THAT THAT CITY WILL BE LUCKY TO HAVE MY HUSBAND.
reminds me of that process for us...although stressful, it is such a neat experience to share as a couple/family. You will look back on it once the decision is made with a big smile in your heart.
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